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I've lost my sex drive!

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Question - (11 January 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *ecky7984 writes:

been with my bf for few months,seem 2 have lost my sex drive latley and have he cant seem 2 make me orgasm through sex or forplay. never had problems in the past! also can being too drunk affect an orgasm??

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (11 January 2011):

petina1 agony auntBeing drunk can certainly effect a lot of things, so the answer to your question would be 'yes'. Is there other things going on in your life that are playing on your mind and stopping you from relaxing. Are you having doubts about your relationship, money, jobs, family. Anything at all can get in the way of orgasm, it's all the problems in the mind, or the mind being affected by alcohol, the list could be endless.

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A female reader, Pretty21 United States +, writes (11 January 2011):

I think u need to calm down relax and enjoy...try not to think about that too much cuz thinking that u need to orgasm will not help just enjoy sex...

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A female reader, Baccurra United States +, writes (11 January 2011):

Being drunk messes with your brain, and yes, I believe I could make an orgasm hard to get. Try being Sober when you have sex

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A female reader, ToHereKnowsWhen Australia +, writes (11 January 2011):

ToHereKnowsWhen agony auntRelax. Don't get wound up about this or you might make it worse. It can be a nasty cycle. You don't orgasm, you get worried about no orgasm, so you don't orgasm again, and so on. Concentrate on the sex and relax.

Being drunk can affect your ability to orgasm. It could go one way or the other, ie: make things worse for you or better.

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