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writes:I want to ask out one of my male coworkers, but I'm not sure if it is a good idea. We talk and joke around a lot and he seems genuinely interested in me, but I don't want to make it awkward if he doesn't like me. How should I go forth in this situation?
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reader, doublejack +, writes (11 January 2011):
I'll echo the advice to go slowly, but think it is perfectly fine to date coworkers as long as there is no company policy against it. I met my ex-wife through work, and that relationship lasted for 10 years (though I quit and found a new job when things got serious). Since becoming single again, I have pursued two different female coworkers. Neither relationship has gotten to the point of being serious, but things aren't awkward around the office either. I believe that the key to keeping things from going wrong is to take is s-l-o-w.
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reader, Sensesfail101 +, writes (11 January 2011):
as long as sex isnt right away........it shoodnt be awkward. My first work relastionship went well. No sex until we knew we were ready. Another work relationship i had went horribly wrong and i still work with him and i hate those days. It totally sucks. Just be real careful. Men can be pigs even if they dont seem like it... :(
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