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Love complications.

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Question - (11 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *yanMoi writes:

[Mod Note: 2 questions combined from same poster.]

Q.I felt really bad for this kid I met. He was so sweet, but he was just so awkward. He was constantly put down by his peers, too.

So, as the good person I am, I asked him out. We've hung out once or twice, and he's turned out to be kind of cool and funny.

He told me that he loved me, and I lied. I said I loved him back.

I do love him, but not in that way. He wants to take this relationship further, but I just wanted to make him not feel like a loser. If I dump him, or reject him, it'll hurt him bad.

But... I'm in love with someone else (which is another complication.)

What should I do?

Q. I have a complicated, love tale. It started a couple monthes ago, when I was talking to my best friend (via IM) and I confessed I liked this boy who was one of her best friends. I don't know if it was out of jealous- or just rotten fate- but she also said she loved him. Well, okay. I didn't mind. I mean, noting is going to happen between them, right? They're just friends.

I was wrong. After a lot of false encouragments, finally, he (maybe lied) said he loved her back. I almost died.

I didn't realize how much I actually did love him. I regret everything.

I really just want to tell him, but it will be awkward. Even though we're only about two years apart, he treats me like a daughter. I love him more than I love to breath. He is my everything, secretly.

Should I tell him, or should I keep it to myself?

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A female reader, MyanMoi United States +, writes (12 January 2011):

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MyanMoi agony auntI guess you're right.

I do have a lot on my plate right now, and I feel like a terrible person for egging the first boy on like that.

I'll just try to live freely. Thank you for the great advice, prostudent2010~!

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