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writes:I currently have a partner who i have been with for 8 year's, he has never been the perfect partner as he's been in trouble load's, Cheated On Me ect but i have alway's forgiven him. Recently I had to report a crime . . . . My mobile Phone was stolen and there was an police officer that came to my house to investigate it, I had actually met him before and he is absolutly stunning and i have never met a nice copper before, he was with his partner when he came to take a statement but i just got this feeling that he liked me, I havent stoped thinking about him since, he told me his first name, was aking personal questions like what school did i go to, how old am i, do i have a boyfriend, do i have kids, absolutly nothing to do with the investigation and he was constantly just looking into my eyes he just gave me a warm feeling, anyway i had some information to give him so i rang him and asked if he wanted me to email it, he said no ! that he wanted to come and collect it off me in person, i mean so police officers usally tell you their full name's? or make an effort to ring you just to see if your ok? or say anytime I need to talk to ring him at the station, but he wont ask me out while hes on dutie, hes also told me he dosent have a girlfriend, please help?
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reader, kenny +, writes (11 January 2011):
 From what you have said it sound like he does like you, he is certainly making all the right noises anyway. You are currently in a relationship where you are clearly not happy, so finish with him and become single, then persue this police officer. One of the most common forms of flirting is direct eye contact, gazing into someone's eyes for lenthy periods of time, then to say he has not got a girlfriend, well it says it all dosen't it.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011): I am married to a police officer and they all have their own way of running an investigation. It is also possible that you might be taking his empathy the wrong way as well.
Officers are very good at dealing with the public and sometimes people take it the wrong way. If he is indeed asking personal questions that have nothing to do with the investigation, he is in the wrong.
I wouldn't bank on his interest in you though. Not to be mean but just realistic.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (11 January 2011):
 Yeh, there is a chance he could feel the same...
But the only reason I say that is because he told you that HE doesn't have a girlfriend. He has to ask questions, that's his job, but to tell you that HE doesn't have a girlfriend...
It's a +1 to maybe being interested in you if ya ask me.
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reader, livelifelove  +, writes (11 January 2011):
okay If you are still in a relationship
do not cheat because he has cheated on you dont be the bad guy like he is.
yes I do believe that he might be waiting for you to be single.
And why did you stay with your partner if they have cheated?
I think he does like you because no cop would ask you wuestions like that unless he is a little coo koo
but If you break up with your partner I would go after him what do you have to lose
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