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writes:There is this girl I like, and I feel that she likes me too, based on all the hints/stuff she said.However, since we haven't meet up for more than half a year, due to both of our busy schedule. But recently, I'm trying to find time to accompany her home. However, she said she is taking route B home instead of route A (route A is the same route as mine). So I decided, maybe is not a good idea to meet up, as i fear that I may not have bus to go back home as there may not be last bus for me to go home.However, this time round, I don't mind spending $ to take cab home if I must. So I ask again, whether she is taking the route A or B. But she told me that she is taking another route, but without telling me which route is it even when I had asked her.Then she seems to know that I was angry coz of her attitude, so she apologies and told me that actually she is going home with her friends (which she every/most of the time does), that's why unable to meet up with me.However, it's already been so long since we meet up, she choose to go home with her friends instead of me? I can accept the reason of her not wanting to meet up with me only if recently I already met up with her, that's why she want to go off with her friends this time round, which she already done it long time ago. But then we haven't been meeting up for so long, she insist of going off with her friends than me?I feel like I am less important than her friends (I don't mind if it is equally important). I feel like I am been toyed around. I don't know what am I to her anymore. Seriously, what is she thinking? Sometimes, I feel like just give up and move on, but whenever I tried to do it, she suddenly came back to me. But then, at times, I feel emotionally hurt by her due to her actions, even though is not often.
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reader, Baccurra  +, writes (11 January 2011):
hey, I think I know what's going on and how to fix it. I may be 18 but please continue to read!!!
Some girls are the type that wants to be hard to get and see if the guy will try to get her. BUT some girls are the type that think guys can read their minds and know whats really going on.
My advice to you is: Ask her if y'all can talk privately, and personally ask her why she is being this way and ask if she is still interested in you. She should tell you what's really going on from there. I hope this helps :)
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reader, doublejack +, writes (11 January 2011):
I'm sorry to be so blunt, but it appears evident to me that this girl is trying to avoid you. She is being evasive in answering your questions and is not making herself available to spend time with you. Those are clear indicators that she's not interested. My advice is to move on and leave her be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011): I think you are best of leaving her. It seems to me that she is trying to avoid you by taking a different route home. If you keep chasing after her and annoying her, she will fully take this to her advantage and use you when ever she needs you - say if her friends arent there. she will only use you. i think your best packing it in now before you get even more hurt. Or else you should leave her for a while so she can get some time and space without you
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reader, swiftone  +, writes (11 January 2011):
I think if she is interested in you she should make more of an effort to spend time with you. Why doesnt she invite you to spend time with her and her friends? I would be inclined to advise you to move on for now. If she is interested she will come to you. I think she already knows that you like her.
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