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writes:Can someone help me? I'm scared i'm obsessed with my ex. Hes actually not even my ex, just a guy I was talking to for ages and met once but now he's gone back to his ex. If I text him or contact him, he doesnt always reply, I know that he doesnt want me and hes happy the way things are. But I cant get him out of my head. I cant shake the feeling that if I could get a bit more time with him, I could make him see he was wrong to choose her. When we met I was feeling lousy and he thinks i'm negative and difficult to please, i'm not, I've just made a terrible first impression.The reason I'm writing this now is I have just done something completely psycho. I'm so ashamed to admit this but I knew he was planning a trip away this weekend, and I knew hes getting the bus back on Monday night, but I didnt know what time. So I've just called the bus company and told them my boyfriend has lost his ticket but could they tell me his reservation number so i can let him know, they asked his name, date of birth and address and then they told me his reservation number and bus time.I was this close to booking a ticket on the same bus just to see him. GO EASY ON ME! I didnt do it. I know how insane that would be. Nobody wants to be the psycho ex. So I'm absolutely NOT going to do it - I mean what the hell would I even say to him? Nothing. I would just make his journey home completely uncomfortable (and it'd be so obvious I was stalking him!!) but my problem is that i've scared myself by even doing that and going to the lengths to call the bus company. How the hell did I even think to do that? I dont know myself at all tonight. Any help? Thanks x
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reader, j.c.d.l +, writes (9 September 2010):
lol! its normal, obsessing over what could have been, just try and meet someone else and forget all about him and one day if its ment to be, youll meet again.
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reader, Denise305  +, writes (8 September 2010):
Not that I am any expert, but there has to be someone out there for you who actually is interested in you. Try an online dating service? Just don't keep chasing someone who is obviously not that into you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 September 2010):
I'm afraid you are totally obsessed with a man who isn't interested at all. Even if you did spend time together, there would be no way he would change his mind at all. I think the only option you have is to delete his number and contacts as quickly as you can. If you don't, then you'll either end up with a restraining order, or you'll end up being recommended for psychological evaluation. You need to let this guy go, and delete his contacts NOW, before you're arrested or committed (no joke!).
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010): i felt the same way as u before but then i found someone who loves me, understands me and comforts me so u shuld go find someone who loves you and will listen to your problems 3 best of luck
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