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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey Everyone!I'm posting this with lots of hopes in my heart that somebody will definitely answer my question. I'm not able to decide who was right and who was wrong in my past relationship because the end of the story lies undecided at the bottom of my heart.I have known my ex for two and a half years. Our final break up happened in July. He happened to cheat on me in December(2009). He used to flirt with girls (online). He came within 3 days of I getting to know the truth saying it was a lie and he did it because he wasn't sure of our relationship. 6 months he was behind me and kept on confessing he loves me(Which i don't beleive now, but beleived during those months) and he wanted me back. I agreed somehow and we began working out on our differences. But then, when i was heartbroken in jan i happened to meet this other guy thru a common friend and we were really good friends and i grew intimate with him. I was intimate with my ex during my relationship in the past. I confessed to my ex that i had a friend who was my real good friend and told him we used to spend time together but i never told him about my intimacy because he's a real emotional possessive guy and i didn't wanna spoil my image. I dono if he had some girl in his life and was intimate. He couldn't resist the fact that i was spending time with this other guy and he stopped messaging me. he never told me what he did during the times we weren't together. And we don't talk now. I told him and tried consoling him that we are gonna have a good future but he just didn't bother.I tried every possible way but alas nothing worked out and that he just gave me promises after he came again that he's gonna be with me till the end but just walked way in between even thou he grew intimate with me again. I'd begun to love him dearly and had set my mind on him. To me growing intimate with him was out of love but i dono how he felt, he'd strongly told me once that it doesn't much to him. These thoughts are hurting me. Who was responsible for the break up? Would i be able to find a better guy who will love me? Would i be able to trust a guy again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): life's just ups and downs!
the relship we think wud go some way and goes the other many times....we often try find out the reason why it did not work...n at the end we r bare handed!....
it may be somewhere the reason that u both had a lack of communication....the biggest cause of any break up in this world!...
i wont say he was wrong but wudnt say he was understanding too..
i donno how u both were in relationship...coz just knowing ur part,wudnt decide...rit?
now the thing is...if u wud get any better guy!and if u were the faulty one!
so....no matter who's fault it was...life has to move on...just open the fist carrying the past...coz u r in present now!!....rit?!
give urself a chance to breathe freely...in open sky!...coz none in world is perfect still all hav rit to live happy!!
when it comes to getting any other guy who wud love u more and be better....so i say...its all upto u!
the world always luks the way we want to see it and the way we react to it...may be someday u find a guy who wud fit to u...
but know one thing...there shudnt b a comparision between who is better....just that..if the person with u loves u or not is wot matters!!
just open ur arms to embrace happiness n world is all urs... :)
gud luck
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