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writes:So, I met this guy at a party and never gave him my number... he searched for me and then asked for my number, we talked for a week and the first time we hung out he tried having sex with me.. I denied him and told him that i thought we were looking for two different things that i wanted a relationship and he didnt.. so i was fine with it.. then we stopped talking... then a month later he comes up to me and says he is ready for a relationship and i basically said whatever and then the next day he leaves college for summer break and hangs out with his ex... then two months before school starts he starts texting me everyday and we start talking and he says he wants to take things slow until he makes me his gf and i was fine with that... then he comes back for school and is really busy with football camp but still asks me to hang out everynight and still takes things slow.. he said he had to figure stuff out before he knew what he wanted... then i as a girl got sick of waiting and told him either u want a relationship or not and he got mad and told me to basically "chill" and we can be friends and hang out till he figure out what he wants and he says how he really likes me and all and doesnt want to hurt me just needs to take things slow... Idk if he is playing me or not? Or if he just wants to be friends or wait to see if someone better comes along?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (7 September 2010):
 It sounds like this guy is trying to play yo whenever he doesn't have another girl around. To come and go like that is far too sketchy especially after want sex so early on after meeting you. I would look for someone else, he may only want friends with benefits either way its not the relationship your looking for. I wouldn't spend your time on him while the right guy for you could be close and you don't want to miss him while you try to figure this other one out.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 September 2010):
 Honestly, I'd move on. He might be hanging onto you till something "greener" turn up.
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