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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and i'm about 9 months pregnant with our daughter. He doesn't trust me at all, although I have done nothing for him not to trust me. I have not had a very good past because I partied too much and always got into trouble. He always brings that up. He keeps telling me I was nasty and I looked like shit the first day he saw me and no wonder why everyone I was with in the past cheated on me. Also, he always puts me down and makes me cry and tells me to shut up because he did nothing wrong. When I ask him a question about something, he always calls me stupid and tells me I don't know anything and he will be teaching our child things and I am not allowed to. He won't even let me be in my own sister's wedding because I have to wear a dress and walk down the aisle with another person. Which is stupid because this guy is like 40. He wont even let me talk to my own mother because he says he knows whats best for me. What do I do to make him trust me? I've given this guy everything I can possible. I really want to work this out with him because of our daughter and I'm in love with him. Why is he acting like this? I need some advice.Thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks :) every day its seems like its getting better but then it always gets thrown in my face. I think i know what i have to do. :(
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reader, sarahrose20  +, writes (8 September 2010):
wat hes doing is not right hes mentally and emotionally abusing you to control you and now hes made sure you have no one to help you he felt threatened by your family so now he wont let you see them. it will only get worse once his child is born and it may even get to the point when she sees his behaviour and starts abusing you as well im sure you do love him but this is not a good situation for you or your duaghter
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reader, smiley2010  +, writes (7 September 2010):
 i know your pregnant an love him an probably scared of how you will manage on your own and being away from him but this guy is really not what you need he is a controlling bully i bet sometimes he is so sweet an you think the bad is worth putting up with because of the good but your wrong you deserve better you deserve to be happy an loved an not put down all the time not just when it suits him this is no environment to bring your daughter up in the things he has been saying to you are awful no one deserves to be spoken to like that an there is no excuse if you do stay with him you need to tell him you will see your family whenever you want dont let him isolate you
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