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36-40,
*ennalove6
writes:theres this guy i have a little crush on and i know the key to a guys heart is to be yourself.. but how are some ways to play a little hard to get? you know keep him guessing...
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (7 September 2010):
 the whole of point in PLAYING HARD TO GET is play hard to get AFTER you get the guy to notice you and take you out. It just means maintaining a healthy lifestyle,not being very attached to him at the early stages of the relationship.not cook for him from day one and not give up on anything u like. i embrace this term as a very positive one. yes u do have to play hard to get so he can see u as his dream girl.but this requires a lot of effort from u also. its easier if u just invite him over and make out with him on the couch right? what a warm feeling! and then he gets an erection and u say "nooo baby not tonight its still early" This behavior is NOT concisdered "hard to get" it screams "i am immature,i dont know how to treat a man" If she was hard to get she would have said goodbye at the door. thats whats its all about,you undestand now girly? :-)
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (7 September 2010):
The problem with playing hard to get is that you might not actually be all that as it is, and by making it difficult for them, they will simply not even notice you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): Playing hard to get makes you a player. Big turn off from a guys perspective. Show interest get involved. You may miss something potentially great bacause of some silly games.
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reader, Sorcerer +, writes (7 September 2010):
Why do you want to keep him guessing? You either want him to know or you don't. Playing these sort of games is really childish and pointless (and men are particularly useless at picking up these things anyway).
The old adage about men liking a chase is actually nonsense. We like it when people make it blatantly clear what they want.
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