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writes:Ok, I started a relationship with a guy that I have just meet like 2 months ago. He said that he really likes me, I don't really like him like for a boyfriend, but he's really nice with me and seems that we have some things in common si I wanted to give him a chanceAfter 4 days he indirectly told me if I wanna have sex via webcam, that he have already did it with the girlfriend of a friend in the past, I told him that I was not interested and that that would never happen, (cause I don't believe on doing that kind of things with a boyfriend or sex before marriage) he said that it was ok and didn't push me to do it.But I don't know if I should continue with this guy, I think maybe he kinda see me like a whore, and I thin that comment was pretty disrespectful but because he didn't pushed me or anything, maybe I should continue with him, what do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for answering, I think I'm gonna give him a chance and see how things goes
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 September 2010):
 4 days after meeting you he asks for webcam sex? Seems to me he is thinking with his nether regions and is not really after a GF, but someone to share webcam sex with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): I agree that it was disrespectful of him to ask something like that after four days. I can understand you are now wondering what sort of guy he is, and whether it would be a good idea to continue with him. Have you asked him about this? Maybe you could ask him why he made that suggestion, and tell him how it made you feel.
Otherwise, I think you should pay attention to your instincts here. If you would be okay with continuing and seeing how things go, that is okay, but if he gives you any more reason to feel uncomfortable like this, walk away. Or if you just have a "bad feeling" about him now, I think it might be worth listening to that feeling. It could have just been a one-off, a silly thing for him to ask maybe, not to mention disrespectful. But maybe because he already did this with someone else, he thought you might be okay with it too. If you make it clear that you are NOT interested in that kind of thing, that should hopefully put him off asking things like that in the future. If not...then it sounds like he may just be after one thing. So listen to your instincts about this guy, and trust in them.
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