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41-50,
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writes:I have a bit of a problem and I would like your advice. When I was in high school, I had a crush with a guy that I was in the same class with. I confronted him about this and he did not show interest in me. At tht time I was 13 yrs and he was 14. Later that year I transferred from that school and I never saw or heard from him then. After about 6 years we bumped on each other and he asked me out. I had a boyfrend then and I had lost interest in him, he went on an on until I gave in but then I never got serious with him. We had sex together once and I think he was a virgin. I broke up with him because my other boyfriend then had proposed I went on and got married and had a child with him, after some time I started having problems with my husband and later seperated. I had joined facebook then but I had changed my surname. after my separation I changed my surname to my maiden one and that's when he invited me again. This time he had relocated to another country in europe and he told me that he kept me in mind and he wanted us to continue from we we left. I explained to him about what I went through and he said he did not care that I had a child and that I got married. We kept in contact and I would call him all the time. The problem that I have with him now is that he never calls me and he only sends me messages after I have sent him more than 5. He then apologizes and tells me that he is having problems financially and that he loves me a lot and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with us. He is giving me mixed signals now I don't know wht to believe. I don't even believe that he loves me. The last time I confronted him about this he told me that if he didn't love me he was not going to search for me on FB. Should I forget him and move on with my life or should I give him another chance?
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reader, sarahrose20  +, writes (8 September 2010):
i agree if he truly loved you he wouldnt be able to wait till he got to talk to you again and he would find a way to do it no matter how good/bad his finances were.
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (7 September 2010):
 He sounds like trouble. I suggest moving on. For one, you gave it a chance years ago and it didn't work out... what makes you think it'll be any different? And second, he seems like he's got issues of his own. It shouldn't be this hard to keep in contact with someone who loves you.
All signs point to "Stay away".
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