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*siaaa
writes:after my divorce i wrote a question here under this title"Husband divorced me when he discovered they did a female circumcision to me as a child".and now after 2 months of my divorce he sent me his penis picture!!!!!he said that he likes to see me wearing a tight t-shirt with V neck and without bra!!!!! am so surprised, coz during our marriage and after i told him that they did a female circumcision to me, he stopped touching me and used to say that he is BLOCKED and divorced me for that!!! i dont understand him. do you think guys that he is feeling regret that he divorced me? do you think that he loves me? we are still in touch but since we divorced, he never said that he loves me or want me back!!!! he is not dating anyone right now. please tell me what you think.
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reader, Asiaaa +, writes (8 September 2010):
Asiaaa is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you sweeeeeeeeet Miamine for your feelings and your support. yes, he dosent deserve me.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 Sorry Assia, I have to put in the link to your original post, so the aunts will understand how wicked this man is, and why you had to leave him.
They will also see his actions now in a very different way..
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/husband-divorced-me-when-he-discovered-they-did.html
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reader, Miamine +, writes (8 September 2010):
Asiaa, I remember your original post.. your husband was hatefull and abusing... one of the worst examples of cruelty in marriage I have ever seen..
And now he sends you sexy pictures... I'm not allowed to swear here, but I wish I could tell you all the bad words I have for him... I remember how he turned you away, how he made you feel ugly...
I don't like your husband man, I don't like him at all.. he hurt you, and he hurt you badly... I want you to stay away from this man. He can keep his bloody penis, when you was married he didn't know how to use it properly and showed you very little love, kindness or understanding.
Please stay away from him.. this man is very cruel.
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reader, Asiaaa +, writes (8 September 2010):
Asiaaa is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes...yes... make me hate him cause am tired of thinking. i believe that he might find sexier, more beautiful, rich and elegant woman, but he will never find a caring and respectable women like me. God knows how much i loved and respected him. i helped him alot financialy. i was patient with him and accepted his poorness. he never was romantic. he is that type of men who dont say romantic words but i loved him anyway. what can i say more...he really broke my heart
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (7 September 2010):
 Married Lady is right and I stand by my original post this guy is a selfish immature self absorbed prick!!! Block him out of your life. He does not deserve another chance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): In that case you should block him from your phone and emails. seriously, that is really cruel. mal
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reader, Asiaaa +, writes (7 September 2010):
Asiaaa is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you sooooooooo much guys. you really helped me to creat an image of what had happened. yes, if he really wants me back, he would say it freely cause he knows that i still love him. he would send a msg saying that he misses me or loves me!!!!it seems that he was bored that day and wanted someone to play with. its too sad coz i was more than an excellent wife, serving him like a maid. i wasn't cold. i really like sex but he made me loose my confident.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): I think he still want you, talk to him and know his feeling,
you need to find what he want, it seems you still care, so talk to him.
but he need to know that marriage is not all about sex, it is about love and understanding, sex is important but it is not everything.
he wants you now, but what if he found out another thing about you, would he be blocked again?
you need to talk about all these thing, you deserve someone to really love you.
best luck
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (7 September 2010):
I think he sounds like the MOST selfish prick on the planet. Send him a reply txt saying ha ha ha that thing's never getting near me again!
You deserve better than this guy he's a slime ball!
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (7 September 2010):
Hi there. It really depends on how you feel about him.
It's hard to know what's going through his mind right now. Apparently all sorts of crazy things. Perhaps it's all a bit of a fantasy to him. You remain faceless now as it's only through texting that you are in contact.
So perhaps he is pretending that you are a complete stranger, as it would be on a chat site on the internet.
It seems like he is creating his own entertainment and that he is bored in his life.
There is nothing to be gained from this meaningless texting and sending sexy photos.
As it is over with him, and you don't have any further interest in him, just ignore his texts (and don't answer them either), and get on with your own life from now on.
Start to make your own life as interesting and exciting as it can be. Go out with your friends and have fun and laugh. Put more meaning into your life. You will be a lot happier and you won't look back.
Hope this helps. Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): I would say that he still wants you..and is hurting and confused. Can you just talk to him and find out if he wants to try again? Maybe meet him for coffee? mal
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reader, WhateverMovesThee  +, writes (7 September 2010):
 I would not go so far as to say that he wants you back and that he loves you. Sending you a picture of his penis and telling you he likes to see you a certain way simply shows some sexual interest. If he had texted that he missed you or something, I'd say :"hmm, maybe he wants you a back." I don't know enough about him to really give a true diagnosis but hon, I would go about this very slowly. Don't get your hopes too high. I mean, he divorced you because you suffered a horrible experience that wasn't at all your fault or your doing...I honestly think you deserve better. You deserve a man more sensitive, caring, and understanding. If this man now regrets his actions, he should have told you, not send you dirty pictures.
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (7 September 2010):
sending a pic of his manhood
is very strange
and i believe he might be after you again
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (7 September 2010):
 Sounds like he's just being a pervert.
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