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anonymous
writes:I have been seeing this guy for almost 4 months now, and I am really starting to like him. We haven't taken things to the next step to have a title as we both want to take things slow. The problem is with his work and other activities in his life he doesn't have a lot of time to spend with me. He also doesn't like to make plans because he always seems to break them, which get irratating at times and use to start a lot of fights. However, I really like this guy and im trying to adapt to the whole not spending a lot of time together ( I am quite busy myself with school and work so sometimes it is a schedule conflict).I was just wondering is this normal and healthy for a relationship if I can adjust to not spending so much time with him as I was in past relationships? and is there a possibility that maybe in the future as his feelings progress that he will be willing to give up more of his time to spend more with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010): "and is there a possibility that maybe in the future as his feelings progress that he will be willing to give up more of his time to spend more with me? "I think you are on the right track here. His behavior is the best indicator. If his feelings progress, yes he will long for you, and ask for more time. He will be the one to meet you halfway, otherwise you need to deviate path altogether and invest your time and emotion on someone who is willing to. In the meantime enjoy your work and activities and if its meant to bloom it will do so entirely on its own.
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