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writes: My ex boyfriend sent me a text sayin that he misses me and that he loves me so i went to see him he told me he wanted to get back together so i ended up staying with him for the night and we had sex now i really wish we hadnt because the next morning i heard him on the phone sayin that he is going out with another girl i still love him and end up doing everything he wants waht should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): rude to say- but he is using u gal!
stay safe....
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhis a bit older than me and his got his own flat i used to enjoy stayin there becuase it made me feel grown up but after we slept together i was really worried about being around him
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reader, DenimandLace44  +, writes (7 September 2010):
 Thats why you should never give them "everything they want." Once you do, there is no reason to keep you around.:(
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 September 2010):
 You are between 13 and 15 years old and staying overnight at a boyfriend's? Where the heck are your parents? You'd better slow down or you'll be burnt out by the time you hit 20.
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reader, gigolojone  +, writes (7 September 2010):
 What he did was really bad and unethical.
He did use you and waste your time as well.
It also looks like you can not trust yourself around him,so i would suggest as much as you love him,if he ever asks to get back together again,avoid meeting him in places where it can become very easy for him to compromise you because if you allow this to happen,you will always end up going back to square one.
He should learn to love,value and respect you as a female.
In order not to give in to him,avoid going to his house,you can find alternative places where to meet and iron issues out.
Everything that has a beginning has an end.
It's high time you set your priorities right,consider yourself a special being and creation of God that deserves a much better treatment.
Am sure there are lots of nice guys out there that are dieing to be with you and treat you in a much better and deserving way.
So please consider looking elsewhere.
It is not easy,but you will never know what you are capable of unless when you give it a go.
Good luck and please don't give him your all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): I imagine he's close to your age or maybe a little older. He's immature and not ready for a serious relationship. He doesn't understand the concept. You may think you love him but believe me, you'll realize what a jerk he is and soon move on to better things. He's stringing you and this other girl(s) along because he's getting what he wants from all sides. It's time to put your foot down. I know it's hard but trust me...in the end, it'll pay off. You can do it!
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reader, Blod  +, writes (7 September 2010):
 Don't see him again. As hard as it is, it sounds like he used you for sex. You might love him, but he doesn't treat you right. He's your ex for a reason and I think it needs to stay that way. Don't give in to him again no matter what he tells you. It's best for you to move.
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reader, aw.  +, writes (7 September 2010):
He just missed you,or having sex with you,anyway he doesn't love you anymore,if he does he shouldn't do that.
Don't stay in touch with him anymore,better try to ignore him.
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reader, smiley2010 +, writes (7 September 2010):
 hey there this guy is a real jerk who is just using you i know its hard to not be with someone when your totally mad for them but he is obviouly only after one thing or he would not be treating you this way trust me when i say you can do a lot better than him hope this has helped a little good luck
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (7 September 2010):
 It's obvious that this guy used you for sex. At your age, you're extremely easy to influence, and the bad part, you get the negative behaviors. Anyway, just mind your serious stuff, such as school. If you want a boyfriend, at least find someone trustworthy and don't get laid without knowing him. It's easy for certain guys to say "I love you" just to get in your pants. Good luck! :)
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