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writes: My boyfriend continues to greet other females by giving them an embracing hug and an affectionate kiss in front of me, after I have asked him not to. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 September 2010):
If that is how he's always greeted females friends why is it a problem now?
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reader, The Realist +, writes (7 September 2010):
I am wondering if he has always done this meaning its cultural or his personal custom to do so. Has he done this for many years or is it a recent thing? Its still doesn't seem to be right esspecially if he does this with every female he come into contact with. The best thing to do would be to sit down and talk with him.
Now don't tell him not to do this, that won't work and is an unreasonable request unless you explain to him what you feel when he does it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): be glad he wud b honest.....as he aint hiding anything...wot he does is all in front of u!
mit b he is clear at heart n its just ur possession!
at times we need to accept certain things in person we love, which actually hurts us alot...just bcoz our loved one is loyal and equally loving to us..!!!
be sure about it before u conclude anyways!
because we always see wot we want to see.get an explanation if it really is worth asking!but an explanation not a direction saying "u must do/dont do this!"
then finally conclude ur decision!
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