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anonymous
writes:What should i do to have sex with my boyfrined but he doesn't want to? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): Tell him you want to have sex today, and you're giving him first chance... if he says no, find man #2.
Seriously, our mates need to be emotionally committed to meeting our needs. Your sexual needs are important and need to be met. He needs to be working to meet them.
He needs to UNDERSTAND that your needs matter and he needs to MAKE AN EFFORT.
If he's depressed, he needs to admit it. It may be very hard for him to even figure this out (depression is weird like that).
Work with him to find the root cause, but tell him he has a few months to figure this out and address it. Then hold him to it.
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