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writes: I am confuse and in love with 2 guys.... how do i choose?I am 21 and have been with my bf who is 25 for 18months and i think i have feelings for a 31 year old and i dont know who to choose? I started dating the 31 year old for 6 months then left him for my bf who i am not sure i am happy with? the 31 year old wants me back and i think i want him but im not sure? and i am worried what people will think...how will i know? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (7 November 2010):
Well hun only you can tell in your head what you truely want. If you dont feel happy with your current boyfriend after 18months then i doubt that the relationship is for you especially when you are having second thoughts about another guy, why did you and this other guy break up? Try and think back to the break up and think to your self could those issues be solved if you got back together, you also need to think of the age gap between you'se and make sure that the both of you arent in two different places and want different things, if you were happier with this other man then follow your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): U shouldn't worry about people's judgement, look at your own happiness and decide asap before someone gets hurts in the process!
Make sure that your decision is final as you might regret if you change your mind!
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