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30-35,
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writes:last time i had a boyfriend my mum was really disappointed and was upset because it was going against our culture, i have another boyfriend i think his the one, i love him to bits and i dont want to break up with him but i also dont want to upset my mum, should i break up with him or should i not? Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 There's not enough information to give you advice that would mean anything to you. This is a decision you'll have to make. What is your culture? How does having a boyfriend violate that? What are your mom's reasons and can you compromise with her? etc.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 No i dont think you should break up with him i no you dont want to hurt your mum but it is your life and you are old enough to make your own choices in life and how you want to live it, in saying that i think you need to be honest with your mum that you have a boyfriend though, because if she found out on her own she probably would lose her trust in you so it is better to be honest with her as at least then she knows that you are truthful even if you are going against her wishes at least she knows you will tell her the truth.
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