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writes:ok so i need some major guy advice (but girls feel free to give ur thoughts) I have noticed a major pattern if im friends with a guy and i dont pay him much attention then he likes me and if i like a guy then he doesnt like me so does that mean guys like aloof girls... jw NEED ADVICE!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo u shouldnt be aloof??? U should act like u like them (if u do)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): no. Its the abundance vs scarcity affect. If you put on a front that you are not that interested more people will try to get your interest or you want what you cant have. Its true im taking sociology class right now and we've learned a lot about about perceptions. People will think your more valuable and thus want to be with you more. However the opposite is true. If you are to available people will lose interest. Ie. Would you like 5 dollar book about cars or would you like a 15 dollar book about cars that only has 2 left in stock. People think well this 15 dollar book i mean wow you kno... Its just perceptions.
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