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*heerwhore23
writes:Ok so I like this guy... He's in band. I have no idea where to even start with him. Normally I go for the jocks and stuff and I know how to get pretty much any guy from that click. Now I'm not one of those girls that care about that stuff but this guy is just so different!! We're friends and stuff but him and his friends always look at me as " one of those cheerleaders" they think we party all the time and do all that " fun popular people" stuff when it's not like that at all. The cheerleaders had to ride the band bus to the football game last week and I just fell for him. I'm not normally shy around guys but all I can do is smile and blush when I talk to him.. How can I get closer to him and get his number and stuff?? I'm soo lost cuz normally I have the whole guy thing perfected.
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reader, Blod  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 Next time you see him, say 'hi' and tell him that you've seen him with his band. That'd be a good opportunity to start a conversation with him and ask him some questions about himself. Hopefully the conversation should develop. If he's not your usual type then you're curiosity about him should help you find questions to ask him. Once you've started a conversation with him, your confidence should build. Just treat him like any other guy. He may be a different compared to what you're used to, but they're still all boys! Good luck.
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reader, RennieGeek +, writes (7 November 2010):
Treat him how you would the others. Ask for his number, and don't be shy about it. Say you'd like to hang out. The absolute worst that can happen is him telling you no but then at least you know then not to worry about it further.
And if he says no, it's not you, he may already have a crush on a different girl and there is nothing you can do about that.
Good luck!
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