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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months and within that time we've had a lot of ups and downs. Our most recent issue is that i'm pregnant and idk if it is because of hormones or what but o feel that his feelings are gone. He still tells me he loves me and writes me notes before i leave the house but when we're apart i have to make plans to meet up and i have to text him. Otherwise i don't think we would really speak... Am i just over thinking or does he really just not care anymore?
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reader, sneha_1492  +, writes (7 November 2010):
First of all congratulations on the pregnancy sweety !
I'm sure he loves you. Maybe it's just that he's scared and doesn't know what to make of it. You need to understand that being a dad is a BIG step for a guy. Sometime's they may not be ready for it, but that doesn't have anything to do with his feelings for you. He might be just spaced out and paranoid about the whole thing. I think you should talk it out to him. Ask him if there's anything wrong, or anythign you can do. Just try to understand his situation from a guy's point of view ! :)
Good luck sweety.
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