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30-35,
*rutha
writes:Hi guys. I've been waiting for soo long, everyone tells me to wait, the right girl will come. That was almost three or four years ago. I'm sick and tired of this.Some advice on how to be confident around girls would be appreciated.THanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, Latino201  +, writes (7 November 2010):
Arutha, I say stuff a sock down your pants!. kidding.
You will never know what a woman or anyone is thinking. There are women out there who love hairy boys, Skinny ones, crazy ones. Just be yourself, be confident, make lots of friends and have fun (as others have advised). Women love to laugh, have fun and good conversation, but most important they love a man who will listen and is never judgmental.
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reader, miscellaneousmail  +, writes (7 November 2010):
Think its's important to be yourself as other posts have said but I also think it's important to play the game: By which I mean women are generally attracted to the alpha male, the strong one in the pack. Try make it a little harder for her as opposed to just metaphorically laying back and opening up too easily. You just have to try be sure of who you are and confident. You can still be yourself and do it with confidence you know. Just be straight...and good luck
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reader, petina1 +, writes (7 November 2010):
 If you take care of your, personal hygene, your looks, your smile, what you wear, then girls will notice you and make a move, that's for sure. Just take care of that and everything else shold follow. You are at the age now that things should start happening quite soon. The right girl may not come along but you can have fun with other girls until that day. Good Luck!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 I will say not wait and just get out there and enjoy yourself. The right girl is not going to come to you just because you are patient. Confidence comes from experience, both good and bad. The longer you wait, the longer you would be labelled "inexperienced," and the more you would use insecurity as a reason not to go out. Keep yourself well groomed and toned. Eliminate factors that a girl might find to reject you. I would say a young girl likes a guy who's cheerful, ambitious and smart. You can't ask how to be those, but you can find out your good qualities and then work from there.
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reader, soinlovededra +, writes (7 November 2010):
Just be yourself, you dont have to change who you are for anybody. Try to put yourself out there more to gain that certain girls attention. The right girl will come so dont rush, be patient. If you see a girl you like go up to her and make short conversation try to make the conversation more about her. Well hope everything goes good.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 You just have to be yourself around girls and remember we arent going to eat you up so just be friendly and get to know girls by asking them basic questions about themselves and show them that you are interested.
Never come on two strong to start off with just try and find some common interests between you and a girl and make conversation try and be friends with a girl first and romance can sometimes naturally follow once you are more confident around her and get to no her.
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