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writes:Helloooo...Just a bit curious is all :)Haven't got a girlfriend, haven't for some time, still I'm quite happy where I stand. Yet a few joke that I'm more likely to marry then anyone else due to my understanding of girls... Lol.Did anyone know instantly in their minds upon seeing their future wives where they knew, "That's the girl I'm going to marry!"?Thx :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Latino201  +, writes (7 November 2010):
YES, it happened to me when I first saw Selma Hiyak! but seriously. It will just sneak up on you. when I met my wife I was on a date with an amazing looking girl! Hot as hell. But you know what.. I felt like myself around my my wife when we first met. It was just kinda magical (don't wanna sound too corny) but It is all about how a person makes u feel when you are in that shared space. Never had to chase her or be pretentious in any way. It just happened.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 A friend of mine thought so. He told me that he always knew he wanted to marry me. Unfortunately, I didn't return the feelings...But on a happier note, my father saw my mother once and got a wedding ring the next day, he dated her for a few months and then, popped the question :) Now, he was struck by an arrow!
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reader, doublejack +, writes (7 November 2010):
I agree with aunt honesty. Moving too fast is a really bad idea, as it takes a long time to truly get to know someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): I knew instantly when I saw my current boyfriend that I was in love (I didn't think "marry" per se, not because I wouldn't I just didn't think that, but I definitely thought "love.") I had seen tons of guys on a daily basis and none really sparked anything in me till I saw my current boyfriend. First thing that came out of my mouth was "I'm in love." I just knew just by looking at him.
My instincts were right. Not only is he absolutely beautiful but he is so real and so so sweet...he's amazing
Crazy part is that he got deja vu first time he came to my place. And I felt like I had always known him. We definitely know we are supposed to be together, and I knew upon first looking at him.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 I personally think you need to take time to get to know another person and see if you are compatibible with each other before you start thinking of marriage, sure you can look at a girl and say thats the girl i am going to marry but then she might not turn out to be the girl you thought she was or expected her to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): Great question. My husband saw me when I was 14 and he said the minute he saw me he knew that I was the one. We got married 5 years later and it is now going on 17 years. Rare but happens
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