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writes:hey everyone , do you really think my gf will change her mind? we were in a long distance relationship . and she jst broke up with me , lately it was really bad , we actually broke up sp many times lately but got bk together but this time it seems to be serious though!! i mean i kinda blame myself , she said that i made her fall out of love with me , coz iwas bein over protective , selfish...and blind , but the thing , i jst love her too much and i guess thats why i was being like that , but now i ve really changed , but she doesnt want me anymore , ilove her like crazy m she means the world to me , but i think i ve lost her forever, i kinds think im dreamin now or something coz we were so much inlove , like really inlove but things chave changed so fast , that i cant even believe that its happenin , but guys do u really think she would get bk with me if i just give her some time , she seemed really so over me , like the way she spoke to me , she even told me she will change her msn , i dnt want her to do that , omg that would kill me!! how can i get her bk please
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): if she wants time and space then respect her decision. You do not own her and you have no control over her life and her decisions. Do not make any effort to contact her. Do not 'monitor' what she is doing. If she wants you back then allow her the right to make that decision alone, without you pestering and pressuring her. In the meantime get out and meet people and possible future friends closer to home. Long distance romances always add more pressure to a relationship.
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reader, LostOneTwoMany  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 I spent so much time, wasted so much time wanting my ex back. You say you really changed, how so? you still say you lover her so much, can it be that your truly afraid to be alone? that was my problem, i was so afraid of being lonely that i obsessed about my ex all the time. feeling sorry for myself, wanting others to feel sorry for me.
Here's something to think about, what if she did come back? what are you going to do when YOU start wondering what she did while she was away! what about if she comes back to only feel the same way again, are you going to be happy that you had her again, but lost her again? some things to think about?
No one here can tell you for sure if she'll come back, I know you want to hear that, I know I did. You need to try to let her go, don't wait for her to come back, think she'll never come back. Except it for what it is, months later you'll look back & say way did I put myself through all that pain. Hope this helps. Look I'm still picking up the pieces of my last relationship.
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