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41-50,
*owerslam
writes:Hi,i'm 30 years of age and really feel confused about a friends sister whose been flirting on and off with me.On a couple of occassions she's kissed me (not the opposite way around). Even at parties other people ask if we're together because we seem to get along so well.But shes just out of a really long relationship and seems a bit out of sorts.The only thing is after a load of drinks she seems to get flirty with my friends other mates.They're all around 21 and she's closer to my age at 28.I start to feel myself getting jealous even though i don't have a right to be. I'm too mature to let it show but its eating away at me.Another friend of mine asked her if she liked me and she told him i was her type, but even he said she gives off confusing signals.Do i go forward with hope that there maybe something there or do i just accept that she's a naturally flirty person and move on to grow out of this crush? Any help would be appreciated
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (8 November 2010):
 Yeah sometimes it helps to hear someone say what you are already thinking, good luck in the future.
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reader, powerslam +, writes (8 November 2010):
powerslam is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice Aunt Honesty. At my age its something you kind of already know but just need insight from an impartial person to calm you. Thanks you really helped
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (7 November 2010):
hi well she is just out of a long term relationship therefore i dont think you want to be the rebound guy do you? I would say she is enjoying herself at the moment and flirting with all of these guys as she is wanting to show she is single and can do what she likes, i think she needs time and space to get this out of her system so i wouldnt advice moving in on her until she has had time to clear her head. Maybe let her come to you, the next time she kisses or flirts with you ask her does she like you and take it from there.
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