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*ochelle20010
writes:Had sex with 2 different guys... who could be the father or could I be pregnant.I was on the depo shot for six months and once i was off i had heavy bleeding for a month none stop. Finally i my period regularize and my period stopped 5 days later. I had unprotected sex with my ex-bf on the 23 and 24 of October and then had sex with another guy on the 29th of October and after sex with the other guy i took the morning after pill, I then had unprotected sex again with my ex on 31st and 1st of November 2010, my period normally starts in the early part of each month, and i haven't seen my period as yet,could i be pregnant? Im urinating more than often, and im easily cold.Could i be pregnant, and if so who do u think is the babyfather?P.S. my periods are now regular, last period was on October 5,2010
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reader, RennieGeek +, writes (8 November 2010):
Just saw the point of advice where someone says not to let him release in you if he doesn't want to wear a condom, you can still get pregnant from that men have pre-cum which is released and can contain sperm.
I just thought I'd let you know that so that you wouldn't be surprised if you tried the pull-out method and got pregnant.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 Let me give you one massive piece of advice that i keep telling myself if i ever get involved with a guy, it'a a phrase that i adopted when i was travelling around australia and has stuck with me ever since...
It's really easy to remember aswell...
"Safe sex, or no sex!!!!" Simple as...
Works a treat, and paid off when i was last tested for STI's...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): it dont sound like your pregnant. you do need to be more careful, if you going to have sex atleast be smart about it. anyways, i learned this from an ovulation book, because both my kids were planned.. if you can remmber those nights, youd notice if this was the case cause sex feels differant when this happens.. your "juice" down there changes (gets thicker) when your body drops an egg, normally its thin and watery, unless your not healthy, but when your ovulationg it becomes thicker, you can put it on your finger, then press them togther and when you pull your fingers apart it kinda "strings" (not the word im lookn for) thats the stuff your body makes for the sperm to live on for a few days.dont have sex when you have that, and if you do, thats most likely the guy who got you pregnant. go to a doctor,at your age, immediate care would be needed to care for your pregnacy so you need to find out asap. most towns/ cities have free centers for the confidental tests here in the u.s. (cant speak for other countries)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 no noboy is perfect you are right and we all make mistakes nobody has the right to judge you on that, i think what people are trying to say is that let this be a lesson to be learned that having unprotected sex is very dangerous, i think you should go get tested for sti's the doctor wont judge you he will be there to help you. Get him to do a pregnancy test as well, and please in the future always ensure that the guy wears a condom, there are two many diseases out there these days to risk it, stop for a second and imagine what life could be like if you caught chlaymidia and could never concieve again? Or even worse caught aids and it ended up destroying your life.
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reader, rochelle20010 +, writes (7 November 2010):
rochelle20010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have only slept with 2 persons my ex and i guy i was talking with. Mistakes happen no one is perfect. It was only one occasion i slept with that new guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): Go to your doctor as you've put yourself at risk of cathing a sexually transmitted disease as well as being pregnant. They won't judge you but will support you and help you. Good Luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): Haven't you ever heard of a pregnancy test or condoms for that matter? Maybe if you stopped sleeping around you wouldn't have these kind of problems. Yes, you could be pregnant but you could also have caught any number of STDs.
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reader, Franny Girl +, writes (7 November 2010):
 Hey,
GIRL! stop having so much unprotected sex wth diffrent guys, is is really that hard to get a condom? maybe if he feels this interups sex? then dont let him release in you...? I think you are worry too much, you like only a few days late, first of all, you cant no if your pregnat untill 2 weeks and second, you wont have side effects untill a month at least! So your probably just over reacting.
Calm down and thing rationally, who has the best chance of being the father, u took the morning after pill with one of them, so it wont be lickly its him... could be more likely the other? as soon as you can and its will work, get a pregnacy test or go to your nearest clinic. they will offer huge help.
If you are posative, then serusly consider some choices, can u finationally carry this baby? will it have your full attention? is this right for you?
I hope everyhting turns out to the best.
Best wishes
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (7 November 2010):
Firstly, take a pregnancy test to actually find out if you are pregnant or not before you get overly worried.
If you are then you have a choice to make in terms of keeping it, and if you do you will have to tell both and then have a DNA test.
But why were you having unprotected sex in the first place? There is no excuse.
And why did you only take the morning after pill following sex with the stranger? Your ex has sperm too, or were u subconsciously hoping he would get you pregnant?
If you are pregnant my money is on your ex given you have sex more time with him during that period and with the other you took the morning after pill, although it doesn't guarantee to stop you getting pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): your simply pathetic... y not protected sex?. u people will never learn, women only realize things when it's too late.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (7 November 2010):
It may just be stress that’s has you period out of whack again and its very soon to think that’s your pregnant. It could take up to two weeks before you conceive. Go see a doctor and stay with one guy.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (7 November 2010):
The only way to know if you are pregnant is to do a pregnancy test. If it's positive, the only way to know who the father is is to do a paternity test.
Do some research on time frames, this could aid you in working out who may have got you pregnant, but don't worry about that until you have done a test.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (7 November 2010):
Well off course you could be pregnant do you not no the facts of life? Having unprotected sex leads to pregnancy in most cases, either of the men could be the father. First of you need to get to a doctor to see if you are pregnant then you need to tell both of the men about it and be truthful with them if you are pregnant than after the birth you can find out through dna who the father is, i hope that this is a lesson to you to always wear protection not only for pregnancy but also for sti's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): You are being very irresponsible by not using protection.
Do you want to get pregnant?
It is unlikely that you are. My doctor told me that when you come off the depo shot, you will have periods but you won't ovulate for up to 6 months because your body is still recovering from the shot.
The only way to find out is by taking a test. We can't tell if you are pregnant and certainly not who is the father!
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reader, RennieGeek +, writes (7 November 2010):
If you're a week late, take a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant, either one of them could be the father since the dates are so close.
Why are you off the shot and having unprotected sex? It only takes one time to get pregnant. I hope for your sake that you are not, and that this is a lesson to you to use your head. Even birth control is not 100% effective and condoms aren't just for pregnancy, they're to help stop disease too.
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