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writes: I'm really confused with how i feel, i used to really like this guy but he wasn't interested and now times have changed he really is, and i do like him it's just that i don't want to face all the embarrassment of change. i have never had a boyfriend before so i don't really know how to act or anything. part of me loves being single but part of me wants to feel what a relationship is like, i suppose i need to experience, but i don't really know how i feel. Sorry if this has confused you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): get ready for life. CHANGE is not something embarassing. CHANGE is what you will have happen to you all your life. Deal with change. You will change jobs many times. You will change where you live. Due to various factors you will even change who you regard as your best friends throughout your life. People change. You will change when you grow in experience. You may/should change partners until you find the ultimate guy you want to marry. That is not yet. You do not yet need a committed sexual relationship yet. You said yourself that you are inexperienced. Do not rush into a relationships only to be seriously hurt. Guys under the age of 20 are selfish and fixated on attracting as many girls as possible into shallow short term series of one night stands or a couple of weeks of sex with a girl, before they tire of her. It means nothing to the boys. But girls give sex and confuse it with love. To the boys it is just sexual fun, while the girl is willing to give it. But sadly the girl comes to believe she and he are in love when the girl does not know the difference between lust and love. And fails to understand that lust and sex alone are what the boy wants, until he is mature enough to settle down permanently. Sadly many boys rush into fatherhood and a relationship long before they are emotionally ready for it, as do many girls. Leading to much heartache and sadness later for everyone involved. . Let the boys under 18 try out all the slutty girls. Do not be in a rush to be one of those used and abused girls. Before the age of 18-20 many guys are only interested in collecting trophies to boast about.
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