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writes:I've been dating him for four months, problem is his ex is always around, they do things together that sometimes i feel left out. He told me not to worry abt it coz she s just a friend, i get so jealous, so angry and i cry so hard..its like im not good enough for him at the same time he changed ma life, he made believe in myself, he inspired me to be who i am today... he is my hero, a hero thats breaking my heart. I wanna end this relationship, coz its as if what i say doesnt make a difference. How do I move on when I have to see him daily at work? It hurts!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u guys, u are really helping... Thank u
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reader, DenimandLace44  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Thats a tough question, but I do think you need to move on. He may love you, but he loves her too. And he isnt admitting it to himself but you are not number one in his life. Try to keep as much distance between you as you can. He may be a nice guy, but you deserve someone who makes you feel special and like you are number one in their life.
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reader, RennieGeek +, writes (9 November 2010):
I am stuck loving a man that I work with who sends mixed signals. It is horribly difficult. Some weeks I am good for several weeks, others I can barely control my tears. What you have to remember though, is that men don't handle emotion very well, so I would try and keep yours in check.
Next, tell him how you feel and be honest. That you get jealous he still spends time with her, that it worries you a bit, that you know you can trust him but you can't help it. Just be cool and calm about it, and see what he says and does.
I hope this helps you. :)
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