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writes:I've heard many times over that if a man likes a woman, nothing will stop him. However, I am wondering if in the case of twins this might be different?Things have been rocky with this guy I speak of on and off, but he gives me the feeling that he cares about me but his twin has strong objections to me and I am wondering if this is what may be stopping him or if I'm just seeing things I want to see.So, my question, is his twin stopping him? Reply to this Question
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Well if he knows how you feel and is still messing you around, then I am afraid he just doesnt like you that much.
If he was really into you, wanted to be with you and felt the way you do about him, then he would be chasing you and he would show how he feels. But if he is sending mixed signals, only is nice when his family isnt around etc then he is just not really that interested.
If he liked you he would stop his twin from interfering, or he would stand up to his family and be proud to be with you, regardless of what they thought of you.
But this is not the case, so I think it is time for you to move on. You deserve better than being messed around and hidden from his family - just move on and find a guy who is proud to call you his and who really wants to be with you.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, RennieGeek +, writes (8 November 2010):
RennieGeek is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, we have had some history, but any time we had problems, it was because his twin started them. He knows how I feel, and I told him again today via text, but he sends mixed signals all the time and only when his twin isn't around.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (8 November 2010):
No idea I'm afraid. Ask the guy you like - thats all I can suggest.
There is a possiblity that his twin may be influencing his decision, as family is important and if your family doesnt like the girl you like, then that is a problem.
But then again, as you said - if he wants you then he will chase you and wont stop until he has you, or you have rejected him. So there is equally a good chance he just is not that into you.
But the only way to be sure is to ask him (maybe online or in a text to avoid awkwardness) how he feels about you. Just be honest with him and tell him you like him, but you are just wanting some idea of how he feels about you. Then at least that way you will have an answer!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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