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*anuary19
writes:Okay, I am 1OO% virgin. Just fyi... Now, my issue is that I'm not sure if I am 1OO% heterosexual. It's not even an issue really because I'd be totally fine with me someday hooking up with a girl. I don't see myself marrying one. I can see myself kissing one and touching one but I can't really see myself giving oral sex to one... receiving? Yes. Now, with a guy I can see myself doing everything. I like c*cks of that I am 1OO% sure... My body may be 1OO% virgin but.. my eyes aren't.So, those thoughts, I find girls shouldn't have... right? I mean, ever since I was a little I used to like the extremely pretty female character more. I would ogle at the actress and wondered why I didn't ogle at the actor instead. I'd get butterflies in my stomach when I saw breasts on screen. I felt forced to say an actor was hot. I'd make up I liked boys at school. When I found out about sex I was for some reason fascinated about homosexuals. Always wondered how two girls did it. When I see my favorite actress on screen I get that tight knot in my stomach. I have never had a favorite actor. Okay, there's some but I am not so obsessed about them as I am with actress'. For some reason I am okay with on screen female/female kisses but not with male/male. Oh, there was this one time where I was at the theater and got this random and sudden urge to turn to the side and kiss my friend. It was like a sudden thing where I saw myself mentally doing it. It was weird. So, I just want to know what I am. I make comments about women which my guy friends look at me with a weird eye. Most of my friends are guys. I was asked if I was bisexual because of the way I talk about Olivia Wilde (I even had a wet dream about her) and I was... flattered but didn't show it... Though my smile may have said otherwise. Maybe I am heteroflexible? I don't know... Could you tell me? Please.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 You could possibly be a lesbian or a bisexual but leaning more towards the attraction to women. It is nothing to be ashamed of so, feel free to be open about it with around people when you are ready.
I know some people who are similar to you, they enjoy staring at women more but they are not sure whether or not they are homosexuals or simply fascinated by women. Why shouldn't one be fascinated by women? Women have beautiful forms, more so than a man could. That is my opinion though so if anyone is reading this and feels obliged to argue, cease and desist.
Perhaps you are simply bi-curious but, I cannot be sure.
I hope that helps.
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reader, January19 +, writes (7 November 2010):
January19 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I failed to mention that when I changed schools, I met this really nice and pretty girl and felt attracted to her. Now, I don't.
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