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writes:How can I rid myself of this feelings . My ex an I have a 3wk old baby we broke up the last months into my pregnancy due to the lack of love for me. He came back I don't even know why, he was there when the baby was born unfortunetly not how I wanted he was texting while I was pushing apparently his family who was outside in the waiting room. We had an arguement and he told me he didn't want to be with me anymore that he had pretended to want to be with me because of our daughters wellbeing, so pretty much he kissed me and hugged me but only pretending. I don't understand how someone can be so coldhearted and play with someone like that. How can I get rid of the feelings I still hold for him especially now that everytime I see my daughter I see his face in her. How so you stop loving someone? How can I get him out of my head? Apparently he has someone else, but I don't know if he only said that to hurt me even more. Someone any advice???
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reader, romany  +, writes (20 July 2010):
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gave birth to her, you are important too.
The only way you'll get over him is to realise you are worth more.
He is gonna be part of your life forever, so you need to find a happy medium, and at the moment, I think realising that he is not worthy of this pain you are feeling right now, is the only way to go.
Enjoy your little girl, and congratulations to you.
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reader, romany +, writes (20 July 2010):
At the moment your emotions are all over the place, You need to enjoy this time with your daughter, it goes by so quickly.
You need to look at her precious little face and ask yourself what you would say to her if she was grown, and was walking in your shoes.
You know what that would be, you'd tell her, he isn't good enough for her, and not worthy of all the love she has for him, that you know she wants to have the family she'd hoped for and for mummy and daddy to live happily ever after, but its not gonna happen, Imagine someone hurting your little girl that, and maybe that will make you realise that you are responsible for that little miracle, your carried her, and you gave birt
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reader, romany +, writes (20 July 2010):
At the moment your emotions are all over the place, You need to enjoy this time with your daughter, it goes by so quickly.
You need to look at her precious little face and ask yourself what you would say to her if she was grown, and was walking in your shoes.
You know what that would be, you'd tell her, he isn't good enough for her, and not worthy of all the love she has for him, that you know she wants to have the family she'd hoped for and for mummy and daddy to live happily ever after, but its not gonna happen, Imagine someone hurting your little girl that, and maybe that will make you realise that you are responsible for that little miracle, your carried her, and you gave birt
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): Sweetie, I've gone throught he same thing as you have. It's very difficult to get someone out of your head! The best advice I can give you is just give it time. It's a long and painful process, but in the end, you'll be over him. Don't rush things!
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