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writes:Alright, my boyfriend and I are quite far into our relationship after two months and I'm not sure what to do or how to please him as my other relationships were on the slow side (this is my first adult one).Last Sunday he came round my house and we did a bit of touchy-feeling and it was so good we had to stop because I was getting too loud (it's a pain in the backside to be fair) which is a shame. I would LOVE to do something for him (i.e) a handjob etc (suggestions are welcomed!) but I'm not ready for oral as this IS my first ADULT boyfriend. I am not shy to do things to him but as I am a little bigger (83 kilo's, 5,6)than other women I'm shy about getting things done even though he tells me all the time I'm beautiful and that I'm the girl for him.(I'd just like to point out that anything you suggest might need instructions and that this is ALL my idea and I want it to be a nice surprise for the most amazing man on this planet!)
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reader, Sarah Burn  +, writes (21 July 2010):
I was in this situation not too long ago as I'm in my first ADULT relationship aswell:) .
My advice is to start off with a handjob (He'll love it!) and then ye both can experiment more as you get more comfortable with eachother. (Oh and tease him aswell)
Hope this helps :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): It is not about pleasing your boyfriend. A relationship works when two people come together because they love and respect eachother. You should just be yourself and he and you should just work, its just that simple. Think about it like this. You should not go around lookin for a job that makes you happy, you should just do waht you love and it will in turn make you happy.
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