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anonymous
writes:I have been talking to this guy for 5 months now. We used to text every day, he used to be really nice and romantic with me. we started having sex, and he is the best i ever had.he started calling me his gf for a while but as a joke. after a while, i realized that other girls txtd him, but he just said they were his friends. but when my guy friends txt me he starts asking me all kinds of questions. he gets really jealous. so i dont really get him. after a while we just texed each other like a couple of times a week, but we still slept together. a couple of weeks after he tells me that he has a gf but that he misses me, that he still cares about me and that he still wants to be with me. im trying to ignore him but he keeps txting me and sending me pics of him. he says he misses sleeping wiht me. I dont really get why he is doing this.im not in love or anything like that. i liked him, but i dont care about him anymore, i just dont get why after all we had he didnt think about me as his gf and now hes trying to cheat on her.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (21 July 2010):
 He misses the sex, and thinks he can get it from you whenever he wants.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 July 2010):
Sex. That's it. This is a guy who just wants to put himself about. That's why you should cut him out of your life
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 You don't really get why he is doing so . But he told you ! Because he misses sleeping with you. He appreciates you as a sexual partner.
You also don't get why he did not see you as his Gf after all you had together. Well, from his point of view it wasn't really THAT much. You just hang out and had sex for a few weeks, while he was also texting, and probably seeing other girls, and pretty soon you were down to a couple of texts a week. Maybe he did not even think you considered him more than a casual partner.
He has a gf now, so keep ignoring him as you have wisely started doing, and move on to somebody that will show you more appreciation and will maky you his GF.
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reader, raiders +, writes (20 July 2010):
 He was your FWB and he probably misses the sex he had with you. He is bad news wanting to cheat on his girlfriend, stay away from him and maybe even changing your phone number. He probably always saw you as his for sure thing, and he probably is thinking on getting those benefits back.
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reader, nsecureone +, writes (20 July 2010):
 He was probably cheating on her all along. He probably still is with any girl who will give him the time of day. Unfortunately, many people are this way. They need the affection of as many people as they can possibly get. Keep ignoring him or just change your number. He is not worth wasting your time thinking about him.
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