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writes:We have been together for nearly 2 years we are both in our forties, I am going through a huge financial crisis now, and barely making a living, my boyfriend has knowledge of this and makes great money. I have never been known to ask for money and infact I am consider myself very a giver and love to help. my boyfriend always pays when we go out he is a wonderful man, however why wont he offer help me financially when he has to know how i am struggling? Are there men out there that are afraid of helping woman financially key word HELP not support, without us woman having to ask? Please advise
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 July 2010):
I don't think he means to do it. Men aren't that good at seeing when they're needed. We want to be needed, but we can't see when we are actually needed. Don't worry about your pride right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your response, you are right maybe he is in the middle, however If a man loves you wouldnt he want to see you with peace of mind and restfull nights of not worrying about the struggles. he counted a stack of cash infront of me and asked if I needed any? my pride could not say yes, I feel if he wanted to help me without humilating me, he should have said here is a gift.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 July 2010):
There will be some men who would readily give money, even if not asked. There are some men who are utterly ruthless and wouldn't give a penny, even if you were on your knees begging. Then there are the men in the middle, who need to be asked.
He knows you're struggling, but if you haven't asked, he may well assume that you're just getting by. Maybe try talking to him again, and see if he will help you. If he does, all well and good. If not, then maybe he cares more about money than you.
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