A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok my husband and i have been together 3 years and have 2 children. About a year after we got together he cheated on me with my best friend. So we got through that now he accuses me of wanting different guys. He tells me all the time he does not love me. He gets mad at me when i go anywhere except to pay bills. He dont even want me to go to my moms. I cant be friends with anyone not even my female cousins. Is there anything i can do to change the way he is?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 July 2010):
Nope. He is now who he is. This is a man who was willing to cheat with your best friend, and has shown you know care, no love, no nothing. He makes accusations, he controls you, he tells you he doesn't love you and will barely let you leave the house. This is the man he is. You can't change him. A man can only change if he wants to change for himself. I'm sad to say that if you think you can change him, you are dreadfully wrong. The time has come for you to make a decision. You can either live like this, knowing that he will treat you this way and probably change, or you can just leave and find someone else who will love you. I think the time has come for you to live your own life.
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