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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:When me and my boyfriend first got together nearly a year ago it was perfect. he was romantic, attentative and amazing. the sex was well balanced, sometimes we would have healthy rough sex and try lots of things, as well as other times making love. gradually over the months we rarely have made love and the sex is getting more rough and more about him. The things he asks me to do I've always been ok with, however there is no balance, I am starting to feel like an object! I have tried to initiate slow love making but he doesnt seem to get hard and even fell asleep once! Sometimes I feel like he thinks of me as a porn star, not his girlfriend. he says he does not watch porn....
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reader, person12345 +, writes (21 July 2010):
 I agree he's most likely lying about the porn. This sounds like classic porn star sex, i.e. the object is to please the penis in as many ways as possible, while the woman is there to be three holes and two hands. You should talk to him about how it makes you feel.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 July 2010):
 Well, this is very indicitive of porn type sex, so he's likely lying about watching porn. He may have some kind of domination fetish that he truely realized more recently. That may explain his inability to keep an erection with other kinds of sex.
Have you told him how this makes you feel? Is he willing to give it a try even? Have you let him know you miss the romance?
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