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writes:So I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I found out about 3 months ago that I am pregnant, and now he is leaving me... What can I say to make him stay, why is he leaving now and not 3 months ago... Help!! Thanks guys... Reply to this Question
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reader, loraemoon  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 hes acting very imature he doesent want to face up to up to this. a baby is a big step for anyone, but hes not being reasonable at all and this must be hard on you, to be honest if hes leaving then dont stop him
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks but I am working been working at the same job for 2 years ( I make more money then him, so I don't think that is why he left, and yea I'm going to let him go, I can do this baby number one on the way... Thanks so much.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (20 July 2010):
 His feelings of responsibilites are starting to sink in. The most you can say to him is that you are willing to find work, and you are not going to lean on him completely, the rest is up to him. If he's avoiding you then don't contact him at all. Many young women are capable of handling a kid and working at the same time, there is no need to beg for him. You still need to go to the court and tell them he's the father so at least you can file for child support.
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reader, lovehater  +, writes (20 July 2010):
You can't do anything to make him stay. He's going to do whatever he wants to do. All you need to be concentrating on right now is that little baby and taking care of yourself throughout all this. And when the baby arrives, taking care of him or her. If your boyfriend is a real man, he'll be a father to that baby whether he is with you or not. I am assuming the pregnancy was not planned. I know it's hard and this sounds like your first pregnancy. But you really need to focus on taking care of yourself and the life you are going to be able to give your child. Focus on that. Friends, family, religion, anything that is going to benefit YOU. Bc once that baby is here, he or she is going to need a you. A healthy, happy you.
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