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writes:Ok, so at i met this girl at camp and fell for her. We became friends, everytime I was near her my heart began to beat faster and I`d get alittle nervous. She left camp for awlie and when she came back I had thous same feelings for a day and then they just went away. I still like being near her and get alittle nervous but my heart feels normal. idk what to do becasue I was planing on telling her I liked her at the end of the week but now i`m not sure if I still feel the same way about her and i doun`t want to tell her I like her if I`m not sure. I`m just really confused and need some advise. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): If you are not sure you like her then don't do anything. Wait a little while and see if you have feelings for her. As of getting her number i would get it just in case you relized you like her after camp and that way you can talk. But don't jump into anything your not sure of so don't just as her out take it from a girl who knows he facts...:)
Hope you turn out okay!!
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reader, Odds +, writes (21 July 2010):
 The moment you feel something, go get her number and ask her out. As a rule, don't "tell her you like her," just ask her to go somewhere with you.
Right now, the feeling of not being sure you like her is your own mind convincing itself that it's better never to try than to try and fail. Ignore that feeling! That way lies loneliness and celibacy!
Waiting to ask her out will only make her feel hurt later. She will believe you became her friend under false pretenses and will feel justifiably betrayed. Ask her out now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): If your not sure that you like her maybe you should hold off for awhile on telling her you hav feelings. Instead maybe you should ask for her number or ask if she wanted to hang out sometime like just as friends.
The only way you'll know if you like her is if you get to know her better, so I suggest you do just that. If all goes well and you realize you do have feelings for her then maybe you could ask her out.
Whatever you do, dont wait to long though, cause the last thing you want is to realize you have feelings for someone and not tell them soon enough, and then next thing you know they're dating someone else... take it from someone who knows, its a bad feeling.
So just dont wait to long, think things over, and all should go well :)
BEST OF LUCK!
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