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He's moving on! How do I tell him how I feel?

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Question - (20 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2010)
A female New Zealand age 30-35, *Dazzling writes:

A guy liked me for a year and showed it, but I was quite shy and never really showed it back. Now since the start of this year, he's ignored me and now he doesn't even look at me (even finds a way around talking to me in practical situations) so I'm thinking that he's either moving on or already has moved on. :(

I really regret never telling him how I felt when I had the chance. I want to stop letting my shyness get in the way and let him know. But how should I do this? We've never had a proper conversation, so wouldn't it be awkward if I just told him straight out? Maybe I should try to make conversation first...? But then I really don't want to let him slip further away. I want him to know that I liked him last year while he did. And even if his feelings have disappeared and I get rejected, at least I'll know I've tried and I hopefully won't be so full of regret. :/

How do you think I should approach him?

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

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A male reader, simpledude Netherlands +, writes (20 July 2010):

simpledude agony auntI'm shy aswell but it doesn't ever help... Go upto him and make some conversation first, then confront him why he's ignoring you while last year he seemed to like you, ask him what has changed or caused this situation, then if he say's he liked you then you can tell him aswell if he says he's moved on then say well to bad but i'm a very shy person and you don't know what ur missing if u really do move on..

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A female reader, clareloux United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2010):

maybe he just trys to show hes getting over you but hes not ,You should just say it out and loud and tell him how you feel it could be your last chance , Hope this helps xxx

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