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writes:First of all i would like to tell you i am vey intoxicated! so please dont mind my minimal use of puncuation here is my scenario! i have known this girl for about two months and she has had a BF and her and i were so compadible and spent every day together for about two weeks until she said she had to put our extravaganza to an end because of her boyfriend! Recentley she has broken up with her boyfriend about two or three days ago and tonight i was at a party with her and i felt the same connecton her and i had both felt before they had broken up! so my question is how do i approach her now that she is single and i have let her know i was looking for more than a fiend and she had said that she would want me if i would have came before him! she told me that she liked me and didnt know what to do so i stopped talking to her and let her think! i just really want her to be mine, what should i say now that they are broken up and how i should i approach her in private conversation VIA text please give me examples! i need her READERS please help me convince her im the one for her! what shuld i text her15 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 July 2010):
Too soon. Too soon. Too soon. She broke up three days ago. You don't know what she's feeling at all. She may well still love this other guy, she may well even be working out ways to get back to him. She is most likely upset, hurt, angry. And the last thing she will need right now is another guy coming into her life. It won't work. At all. She'll turn you down, and you won't even have the chance to get to know her more as a friend.
She needs a friend, so be there as a friend and see where it leads in time. But it's too soon for anything else. You don't' want to end up losing her friendship too soon, or worse just being a rebound before she goes back to her ex.
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