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Shady goings on...

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Question - (20 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *lacknBeautiful writes:

I feel like my boyfriend is my soulmate. When we are on good terms we tell each other that we feel so complete with each other. But we argue all the time, my boyfriend is the type of guy that will bring stuff back up just to keep the arguement going. I must admit that I have started some as well(like why the girl that we had sex with while we were on a break over a year ago is still calling his phone!) He tellings me that she devoloped feelings for him and wants to be with him. Which i dont understand because she has a boyfriend.

We havent hung out in a while so we did last nite, for the most part it was great but we did exchange words a couple bad ones but mostly good ones. He kept his phone off and outta sight. While mines was in his hands every chance he got.

I'm so confused should I just let him go and try to move on. he does act shady when hes with his friends, like not picking up the phone and calling me back later.. What should I do?

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (21 July 2010):

janniepeg agony auntThere has to be a reason for this threesome to take place. He's attracted to her. No one really enjoys being the third girl so to kill off feelings of jealousy she finds a boyfriend but still could not forget about your boyfriend, and your boyfriend could not just leave it as a casual threesome. When you are adventurous enough to do a threesome, then you should have a mental preparation that this is going to happen. He still likes you enough to stay with you but he's playing with both of you. If you can't trust him then don't go on pretending that they are just friends.

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A female reader, celticghirl United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2010):

Well its clear you know what you should do,but its so hard to do it when you love them.

If i was to give you the best advice it would be to try and move on with your life and even when he does call you tell him your busy and keep doing it,it will give you so much power and he will remember never to put you out in the cold again!! And if he doesnt sure you havent been seeing him anyway (winners all round)

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