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30-35,
*ee05
writes:I have been with my partner for 2.5 years, we lost our virginitys to each other so he is the only person i have had. in the time that we have been together i have never orgasmed apart from when i do it myself though clitoral stimulation. I can get to the point where it feels like you kinda want to go pee (not sure if thats only because i dont have a completly empty bladder) but i can never get beyond that point. Is there anything we can do to push me over the edge? please help i really want to orgasm :)
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reader, person12345  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 If you're at the point where you feel like you need to pee you're stimulating your G-spot. I assume this means you're only trying through penetrative sex? Most women can't orgasm this way. Clitoral stimulation is your orgasm button. Your clitoris is what you should be aiming for, at least for now. Have you tried having him give you oral? That takes a lot of women over the edge. There's nothing wrong with not being able to orgasm from sex, only around 25% of women can do it. A good way to help it along is to be on top and stimulate yourself with your hands. That way you orgasm, he gets an amazing visual, everyone wins.
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reader, Gomer Pyle  +, writes (20 July 2010):
Seriously, buy and try the hitachi wand http://www.amazon.com/Vibratex-HV-250R-Hitachi-Magic-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE, as you and your lover reach climax. You both will thank me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): Now how is a guy telling a girl that the feeling she's identified as an oncoming orgasm is indeed that? How the hell do you know? THat said, a male orgasm does feel like you're about to pee...with like a herd of elephants behind it. I dunno...I get to that "pee" stage a lot when I'm in uncomfortable positions, and if I get stuck there, I just think about the raunchiest porn scene I can muster, and I usually blow.
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (20 July 2010):
 That feeling you have like you are going to pee... That's it. That is an orgasm ready to blow. Just relax and let it happen.
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