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writes:so my ex came to my house he told me to make him some tea i did.he asked if am dating anyone i said yeah.. he said he regrets getting with me cos i couldn't even kiss and then he showed me a text message from some girl who is in love with him..then he wanted to kiss me. i said no way.he puts me down and makes me feel very depress and insecure.. why does he do this??i hate him soo much:( when i was with him.whenever i said no to sex he'd force me take of my jeans and have sex with me..he never took no for any answer..:(why does he do this??i cant stop him from coming ot my house cos he's my brother's friend (he doesn't know he went out with me)what should I do?? or say to him please??thnx..xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): He's a pathetic little idiot who borderline raped you when he was in a relationship with you. Never ever make him tea again. If he comes around, ignore him. What a sucker this dude.
Thank God you are no longer with that clown of man.
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reader, ca girl  +, writes (21 July 2010):
Stop doing with the creep tells you to do! You're in your home, he should not be ordering you to do anything.
Tell your brother what he has done and ask your brother to make sure the guy doesn't come to the house again.
Why would you let someone treat you this way? Don't ever let anyone touch you against your will. It affects your self esteem and will make you depressed. YOU are in charge of your body - don't ever let this happen again. Promise me.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Tell your brother that you two were an item and that he is now bothering you. And even if you can't stop him from coming to your house, you can keep yourself in a different room from him. Just go to your own room, or excuse yourself and leave. Or better yet, tell your parents that your brothers friend is bothering you and putting you down and that you feel pushed out of your own home.
Speak up girl! He has no business being an ass to you in your own home. Take charge and show him the door. Back to the "you can't keep him from coming over"?! You definitely can.. you have every much as right to deny him access as your brother has a right to invite him over.
Tell your parents. Tell your brother. And kick the guy out. Or stop being in the same room as him at least.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 July 2010):
Tell your brother what he has done. Tell him you want him to never see this guy again. And if he forced you to have sex after you said no, that's rape. So report him as well. And stop making tea for him, or even speaking to him.
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