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writes:Hi. My name is Shelby, and I'm in desperate need of help. See, my boyfriend and I were together for 10 months and 18 days, but about 3:30 on the 18th day, right when me and my friends went into the Mall that I've been dying to go to for months, he texted me and broke up with me.. I just...I was so shocked.. so... devastated... We've known each other since the 3rd grade, which with my bad memory, those years of knowing him are a total blur to me. But then I met him again in the 7th grade, but had to move again. And then this year, I met him again in the 11th grade. We got to know each other and got to be good friends from the first day of school. After about a month into school, we started dating. He told me he was so excited that he was going to get to date me. But...he shouldn't have been THAT excited...because I've develpoed so many problems in the years we haven't seen each other. He broke up with me because I get upset over things too much, accidentally start fights all the time, blame myself for everything, and sometimes insult myself too much. But I have worked on not insulting myself so much since he almost broke up with me a while back. And then he just....dumps me..I'm so lost without him, this is only the 4th day without him, and it feels like a month.. He says he doesn't want to fight anymore, he doesn't want to argue anymore. But...if he'll take me back, I swear with all the energy I have left, all the love I have for him, I'm dedicated and so willing to change those things about me so he'll take me back.. I've been told to leave him alone for a while, I'm just trying to plan and get him back.. Because if I don't, I can't go on living.. I mean, maybe I can..somehow, but I'm never going to be truly happy without him...Does anybody have any advice...? I really need it...
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (20 July 2010):
You will be able to go on living and it will not be the end of the world, it is this attitude that he has probly had enough of. He has been unfair to you but i think you need to learn to be more mature and independant. Moving on and showing that you are strong person may make him change his mind. Give it a bit of time and then see if you think your still right for each other.
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