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"I don't understand"

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Question - (20 July 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

"OP Own Title" I was talking with a man online and getting to know him for about a year.

I then found out that he never told anyone about me but claimed to do so with me.

What does this mean? [Mod note- changed a word for clarity]

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (20 July 2010):

Honeypie agony auntI agree with CaringGuy and Anon.

He's not single. It was a fantasy/game to him, not real, as it was to you.

Dump the dude, cut the contact and move on.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2010):

That means he probably has a wife at home. A man to avoid, methinks.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010):

Maybe he`s embarrassed because he cant get a girlfriend unless its on a computer. Whatever it is he`s capable of telling lies.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010):

You were talking online for A YEAR and never once met???

He's probably married,

Or a compulsive liar,

or both.

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A male reader, justfriends United States +, writes (20 July 2010):

justfriends agony auntalright well I have been talking to a girl I like for about 5 months now and started talking to her online because I was afraid to talk to her in person. I don't tell my friends because they will get angry at me they are watching my back to try and keep me from doing something stupid or wasting my time. I care about this girl more than the world even know last night she told me we are just friends. I also did not tell people because I was ashamed by myself to talk to her online before I met her in person. I did not want to make her think that all I do is talk about her. I don't want her to think I am obsessed with her because I am not but truthfully I think about her a lot.

I think it only means he likes you and he does not want to freak you out by talking about you all the time :)

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