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51-59,
anonymous
writes: "OP Own Title" I was talking with a man online and getting to know him for about a year. I then found out that he never told anyone about me but claimed to do so with me.What does this mean? [Mod note- changed a word for clarity] Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 July 2010):
I agree with CaringGuy and Anon.
He's not single. It was a fantasy/game to him, not real, as it was to you.
Dump the dude, cut the contact and move on.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 July 2010):
That means he probably has a wife at home. A man to avoid, methinks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): Maybe he`s embarrassed because he cant get a girlfriend unless its on a computer. Whatever it is he`s capable of telling lies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010):
You were talking online for A YEAR and never once met???
He's probably married,
Or a compulsive liar,
or both.
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reader, justfriends +, writes (20 July 2010):
alright well I have been talking to a girl I like for about 5 months now and started talking to her online because I was afraid to talk to her in person. I don't tell my friends because they will get angry at me they are watching my back to try and keep me from doing something stupid or wasting my time. I care about this girl more than the world even know last night she told me we are just friends. I also did not tell people because I was ashamed by myself to talk to her online before I met her in person. I did not want to make her think that all I do is talk about her. I don't want her to think I am obsessed with her because I am not but truthfully I think about her a lot. I think it only means he likes you and he does not want to freak you out by talking about you all the time :)
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