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writes:Tip for first experience please.I think it's nice and romantic to brush my wife's hair (on her head--for those with perverted mind!). I'm basically looking for something sweet and romantic that I can do daily when we wind down (I have the massage thing down years ago--but don't want to overplay that).I've never done it and my hair is crew-cut short so I don't know what to do. And definitely don't want to eff up the first time that will cause her to laugh or scar her out of the experience.We always shower before bed to wash away the day's grime so there is a need for brushing. She has always kept her hair around shoulder-length and I don't want to hurt her if I brush it wet and get it tangled and ruin the experience for good.So here are my choices.1) brush wet and help with drying in the bathroom (a little iffy on this--doesn't seem romantic and kinda utilitarian)2) sit on the bed and slowly brush while we watch TV3) sit on the bed and slowly brush while we talk.Trying to make it a suave and natural thing so I'm asking how would you like your husband to approach it in a way that makes you feel comfortable and cared for instead of a perverted thing.Don't tell me to ask her please. Want to make this a suave thing, like I said. Reply to this Question
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 i had to laugh at the perverted mind bit i ddnt think that at all but now i do heeeh! anyhoo i think these two sound good.
2) sit on the bed and slowly brush while we watch TV
3) sit on the bed and slowly brush while we talk.
let her dry her hair that way when she sits down she can relax also if you hold the hair half way quite tight but not too hard that way when you brush the bottom it wont yank on the hair at the top! also better brushing the bottom so when you come from top to bottom it will be less tangled also maybe buy some nice smelling anti tangle that will help to have less tangled bits and make her hair smell nice you dont need lots of it so it wont make a mess! if her hair is quite tangled use a comb rather than a brush. hope it helps aphex x
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