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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I live in a bad area of our town and recently my boyfriend of 4 months got a threat off a random person and then a month and half later got attacked on the canal. it was nothing serious but now my mum doesnt want me seeing him as she says he is an attention seeker and she seems to think someone has it in for him. hes a lovely lad, gives me everything and there is no reason for anyone to have anything against him. How can I make my mum like him again and see that he's a nice lad? Please Help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 July 2010):
You know, mother's aren't stupid. They're not. And the vast majority don't want their kids to end up hurt and miserable. The problem with being a teenager, is you like to think you know more than you do. You like to think you can make big decisions. I know I did. I made the mistake of not listening to my mother just three times on important things. And I really wish I had now.
Your mother will have been where you are now. She will know this young man more than you do, because chances are she will have met a guy like him before when she was a teenager.
Listen to your mother. If she thinks that something is wrong, then something is wrong. And if you choose not to listen, at some point you will pay the price for it when you get hurt.
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