Frustrated..my bf can't get aroused! Help!

A female age 36-40, *eautifulDirtyRich writes:

So about a month ago i met this great guy and weve been hanging out at least twice a week since then. A week ago we officially became bf/gf. Everythings pretty much perfect. The thing is though we havnt had sex yet. For the first couple weeks it was my choice, i thought anyways. But about 2 weeks ago, when i decided it was ok i found out that he cant seem to get aroused with me. We go out drinking once a week and he can never do it after that, which is maybe understandable, but then even when hes completely sober it just doesnt happen. Im getting really frustrated and im starting to think theres something wrong with me. This has never happened to me before, and he says its never happened to him either. So really im just wondering what might be the cause, and what kind of tricks are there to get him where i want him???

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A male reader, not_entirely_sure  +, writes (7 February 2010):

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