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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:So...I am very open with my parents and siblings about sex, we talk about it from time to time and stuff but not like detailed. My mom tells me not to have it, and my brother says if I did ever have sex at my age, he would be able to tell because I would act or be different. Can you actually tell if someone has had sex before? I haven't yet, but its a thing that might come up in the future. It's gross to think that my brother would know if I had it and I wouldn't want my mom thinking about it or who I would have it with, or even asking me questions about it. Me and my mom are close, but Im not gonna tell her im horny all the time and am not gonna be a virgin till marriage (cuz Im positive I wont last that long.) Help?? And I do masturbate but im getting sick of my same routine, so any idea's if at my age I could buy things like a vibrator, if I went to a mall?
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reader, veronika  +, writes (7 February 2010):
 1. Your brother WON'T be able to tell if you're a virgin or not. Virgins and non-virgins don't tend to act "differently" from each other, we're all human whether we've had sex or not. He's bullshitting. The only real way he'd know is if you told him.
2. About the vibrator thing - you buy vibrators and other sex toys at sex shops, and they're usually 18+ (or perhaps 21+ in some parts of the world?), so if you're 13-15 like it says you are, you won't have much luck. Even if you try to sneak into one, they may ask for ID, or they may be able to tell you're younger than the acceptable age and refuse to sell you something. So unfortunately you might not have much luck in buying a vibrator from the mall easily. You might have to get creative and think of other ways to masturbate...
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